Yes, I know I only put it in as a blurb a while ago…. but I’m single again. Have been since late February. Simply just wasn’t time and everything wasn’t in place for it all to move forward.

So no, I’m not getting married this year, as far as I can see.

No, I’m not out ring shopping.

No, I’m not house hunting for two anymore.

No, the page I made for T and me is not available anymore and won’t be.

No, I’m not leaving my old church because T and I broke up. Me leaving NSBF has been a struggle I’ve been dealing with for over a year now (and I still have an unpublished blog on that subject…. that will get published on Monday when I get in from meeting with my pastor).

Yes, I’m moving on with my life.

I don’t know if T and I will ever get back together. For the forseeable future, no.

No, I’m not ‘getting myself together’ just to get her back. I’ve been on a mission to get myself together anyway all this year.

No, I’m not going to bash T on my blog.

No, I’m not bitter and I don’t need a thousand condolences. Whatever purpose God had in the relationship, if I don’t know it yet, I will one day. I can say I’ve grown from it and learned a lot about myself and things that I need to have in order as a man who plans to be a husband and father one day.

Yes, I have much that I can take away from this relationship.

Yes, T is a good woman and will make someone a wonderful wife one day.

Yes, I praise God in all situations and circumstances. Even things which drag you through emotional hurts and pains like the ending of a relationship, are ultimately ordained by God for your ultimate good (Romans 8:28) and His glory.

This has been one heck of a year. I been through more changes than Michael Jacksons’ nose.

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